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On the third week of my resumption to school (Informatics Institute Kazaure) my First Semester International Advance Diploma in Network and cyber Security, we went to Zaria for Excursion on the 2nd October 2011, which is organize by Muslim Student Society of Nigeria (MSSN) Informatics chapter. We went for four (4) days Excursion that is from 2nd – 6th October 2011, doing the Excursion period I sow girl that I really Love, but because of the rules lay down before going to the Excursion that “No relationship between sisters and brothers” this is the reason why I couldn’t approach her or forward my proposal to her. After the Excursion is over, we come back to school and continue our normal life, we meet almost every and discuss with her but I haven’t let her know what I am going through. Latter on I discuss with my friend Salis Abdullahi about her issue because before I am hiding the issue for everybody, but been he is my best friend I could not hide anything for him, we conclude we follow Islamic way to approach her and he is the chief Imam girls hostel mosque so he will use that opportunity to talk to her after the prayers, a couple of days he haven’t see her in the mosque, and I am eager to have my feedback from him but what he keep telling me is “Fasbir” on 3rd November 2011, I have a Sallah break, on my way to the school gate I call her with my cell phone to inform her that I am going she tell me that she is coming to meet me at the school entrance, I wait for her and she meet me in a fraction of minutes, we have a long discussion with her but still I didn’t tell her what I am going through because we have agree to let my friend tell her everything, from there she escort me a little bit and pray for me, I leave the institution around 01:46pm and later around 4:15pm my friend meet her and discuss with for a couple of minutes and she insist that he should give her a time to think over it but he insist that the time should not exceed 24 hours but she didn’t agree with that, he give her more than enough time, during the break period we communicate with her through the phone but no one talk about the issue until we come back to school. Almost 10 days we have no reply from her even when my friend call her she don’t normally take the call. One night my friend is together with his girl friend he tell her all the problems I am facing and she adverse him that I should talk to her one on one maybe when I meet her personally she will tell me the fact, and we agree on the advise she gave to us. the next day is Friday I call her on her cell phone around 1:33pm and have an appointment with her, that she will meet me at the S.U.G office around 5:00pm and she said whenever I am ready I should call her on the cell phone, on that same day I have a lecture from 3pm-5pm, around 4:45pm I take an excuse from the lecturer, I call her as I promise to do, before she come my friend Salis call me and ask where I am and I tell him I am at the S.U.G office, he meet me there in a fraction of minutes before her arrival, we start discussing with him about her issue again and then latter on she appear to us and greet us around 5:32pm, then he (Salis) excuse us and give us a chance to discuss. The first issue I brought to her is about the time and appointment we both agree on, and she gave me some of her excuse that are acceptable, not withstanding I go directly to the point to asked her about my proposal and she reply to me that I shall let her talk to Malan Salis their Imam because they start discussing with him in the early stage, I agree with her without arguing, instantly I call him on this cell phone and tell him to meet me, he arrive in a short period of time, not withstanding I gave them the chance to discuss. I went to LT2 to meet with his girl friend and chart so that I should keep her busy, we take a long time discussing with her, and later late in the evening around 6:30pm during magrib prayer I went for prayers and she too. After the prayers we meet with him and our other friends gisting, so because of many people we couldn’t talk about the issue. Furthermore, we got spirited around 7:50pm and have an appointment with him, that we are going to meet around 8:30pm but we couldn’t have opportunity to get together until 10:00pm in the night, subsequently we discuss three of us I, Salis as well as his girl friend (A’isha), and he narrate all what happen between them in that period of time I left them, this is where the problem instigate, she told him that, and I quote “is not that I did not love Sadiq but the problem is that my studies will be interrupted when I start engaging myself in relationship with any guy in this institution, but if he rely loves me and think that he can wait until I graduate and send to our house to meet my parents.” Then my friend tell her that if she know the type of person she is and I too know the type of person I am then noting will interrupt with her studies as well as I, perhaps I can even guide her through her studies, but she insist, then he tell her “if you rely know yourself and he as well nothing will affect your studies” but the way she answered and talk he understand that she don’t have interest in the relationship and he finally tell her that we will have a discussion together and he will let her know the outcome of our discussion. After he narrates this story to us he then asks me “what do you think about it?” I reply him “you know I will not say anything unless what you say because I trust your decision.” He advice me to let it go and forget about the girl because sometimes you may like something and God will not give you at the particular time you want, sometimes you will ask for something God will replace it with the better one and sometimes you will ask something and will not get that thing at all, so he suggest that I should not worry about her and he pray that Almighty God shall change her with the better one, and he ask the view of his girl friend A’isha she support him and I agree with them. I come to their place with the intention of going to read after I left their place but I couldn’t make it because I was so destabilized with what I heard from him, I went to bed but I couldn’t sleep through out that night I was so disorganized I couldn’t go out for complete three days and I switched both my cell phone off for those says. This girl is no one but Hauwa Aliyu Bako she turn me to be un happy person in the institute my friends doesn’t see me out side any more, I don’t know what to do because she is the first girl I love since when I step my foots in to the noble institution, even though there are some ladies proposing to me since when I am at my foundation level, but I don’t have their time because that period I don’t know what is call LOVE in this institution. I agree with the saying “even the smartest guy turn stupid when he fall in love” whoever test love from a bitter side will not ever agree that there is a sweet part of love, like me I have never test the sweet part of love completely only little part of the sweet. But how ever test love from the sweet part he will never love anything than love. I pray to Almighty Allah to give me chance to test love from the sweetest part. Because I now realized that the life is full of misfortune!!! This is the Story of my love in the institution (Informatics Institute Kazaure). Sadiq Abdulkarim (Aj fitted)

The Story of my Love at the institute (Informatics Institute Kazaure)

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